GIrl on GIrl Hate!

So ladies I am writing this because it is something that affects me on a daily basis and something that really, really, gets under my skin! It's something we are all guilty of every once in a while some more then others. We all have said at least once in our lives, "I HATE GIRLS!" or "That's why I only have guy friends". Ok first off unless they are gay, most guys (considering you are a halfway decent looking girl which we all are!) DO NOT just want to be our "friends". I don't care who it is, deep down inside somewhere, somehow in every "guy friend" there is a small glimmer of hope even the size of a poppy seed, one day you will become uncontrollably attracted to them in some way, shape or form! Even if they aren't in love with you ask 10 straight guys and I bet you at least 9 of them will tell you that they would sleep with their best female friend! Now we all know whether that line is ever crossed is 99% up to us!
With that said, now more then ever (and I have been guilty of it too from time to time) we jump and make a snap judgement about another girl based solely on outward appearance, "Oh she's a bitch" or "she's a whore" but what it all boils down to is a 7 letter word J•E•A•L•O•U•S•Y! We all feel threatened every once in a while when a girl we deem prettier then ourselves walks by! We stare each other up and down like 2 tigers in the jungle about to pounce on one another and before ever getting to know one another we assume things and right then and there we decide not to like one another. Some who are really evil haters will use the Don Corleone approach to keep our friends close enemies closer! I think girls have more "Frienemies" then real girlfriends and that is just plain old sad!
Well I have took a personal pledge not to judge girls like that anymore! I don't think I was ever so terrible with it anyway because I have been on the other side of the fence being judged without being known and it's a lonely feeling! I have rid my self of all jealous, hating frienemies and I chose only to surround myself with the few other girls in my life that feel the same way I do! I don't hate girls but I can't control if they hate me! I am not going to change being who I am to make others happy and if you are going to judge me then I probably am better off not being friends with you and vice versa! All I know is that I am going to treat all other girls equally even if and if your cool then we can be friends! I have accepted that there are millions of women that are prettier, have bigger boobs, nicer butts, dress better, have better hair, better clothes, nicer cars and that's ok because I love me more then anyone just the way I am!

So I ask you all to think before judging! At least to try to have a 5 minute conversation before writing another girl off as a bitch, skank or slut! You will probably make a few decent friends in the mix.Leave the judging up to the guys, we need to stick together!